Mondays are Man Appreciation Day here at The Art of Flirting!
Every Monday, I share something that I appreciate about men. It might come in the form of a specific story from a man in my own life. Or, it might simply be something that I love about men (because, seriously, you guys are pretty great 🙂 ).
The other day, I was having tea with a female friend of mine — a woman who, like me, is in an open marriage. At one point, we talked about how much we both really like dating nerdy guys.
The cliche in teen movies is that the nerds never get the girl, but in real life, nerdy guys are super sexy! This conversation over tea is not the first time I’ve sat down with a female friend and gushed over how much we love nerds.
So, onto this week’s Man Appreciation Monday…
3 Things I Love About Nerdy Guys
Nerdy guys are usually very smart, and this makes them more interesting to talk to, because they have a wide range of topics that they can speak intelligently about.
Plus, most of the nerdy guys I’ve dated are interested in learning about things that most people never pay attention to, and this means I get to learn about new things too. Thanks to dating nerdy guys, I’ve learned about how to make up mixed drink recipes, play dungeons and dragons, and write music — just to name a few!
Nerdy guys tend to be really passionate about the things they are into, whether it’s gaming, technology, comic books, or whatever else. Probably one of the most fun experiences I’ve had being in an open marriage is watching my husband and one of my boyfriends geek out on Alan Moore comic books together.
Even if I’m not personally interested in the thing he’s so into, the passion is still very attractive!
3. Self Awareness
I don’t know exactly why this is — perhaps it’s that nerdy guys tend to be more introverted and therefore introspective — but either way, I have noticed that nerdy guys tend to have a much higher level of self-awareness than the average person.
This is a vital skill for creating and maintaining an emotionally healthy relationship. Nerdy men are willing to examine themselves and their own feelings about things. They treat relationship problems like a puzzle to be solved — in a good way!
Yep, it’s official — nerdy guys definitely make great boyfriends. 🙂
Happy Man Appreciation Monday!
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