I’ve started a new tradition here at The Art of Flirting: Man Appreciation Monday!
Every Monday, I’m going to sharing something that I appreciate about men. It might come in the form of a story from a specific man in my own life. Or, it might simply be something that I love about men. Or both 🙂
I’m doing this because, if there’s one thing I’ve learned from spending time with men, it’s that you guys are woefully underappreciated for who you are and everything that you do.
Your good deeds get overshadowed by the violence and misogyny perpetrated by others.
Your struggles get dismissed with comments like, “Yeah, but look at what women have to go through!” As if the problems that one group of people faces somehow makes it ok to ignore or brush off the problems of another.
So, I’m taking this time to appreciate you.
This week, I want to appreciate how sexually generous men can be.
I’ll start with my husband, who tried a new g-spot technique on me this past weekend.
My husband takes the time and effort to learn new ways to bring me pleasure. He reads books and watches videos just to get new ideas.
In other words, he is highly motivated to make me feel really, really good!
In my experience with men, he’s far from the only one. There are countless books, videos, courses, programs and such designed for men who want to learn more about how to please a woman in bed.
Why would those things exist unless there were men who cared enough to invest time and money into learning that stuff?
When most men recount their top sexual experiences with a woman, they almost always remember times that involve giving her immense amounts of pleasure!
Many men that I’ve coached over the years have expressed that they want more than anything to make a woman happy — inside the bedroom and out of it. They often want this more than they want to satisfy their own “urges.” They feel a deep sense of pain that the women they encounter don’t seem to notice or appreciate this about them.
So, here’s to you, sexually generous men!
Thank you for prioritizing a woman’s pleasure. Thank you for respecting her boundaries and doing what you can to make her feel at ease in your presence. And for focusing on making her feel as good as possible!
You are very much appreciated 🙂
Happy Man Appreciation Monday!
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