Confidence Vs. Competence: How to Be Confident When You’re Not Good At Something (Yet)

iStock_JugglingXSmallWhether it’s related to dating or not, at some point in your life, you’ve probably heard someone (maybe even me) give you encouragement along the lines of: you can do it! You just need to believe in yourself!

Not only is this a cliche, it’s pretty much useless advice on its own. However, it is also completely true.

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Reader Question: Why Would Someone Flirt With Me if They’re in a Relationship?

iStock_lovetriangleXSmallHave you ever had someone flirt with you, only to find out that they are in a relationship?

This used to happen to me a lot! I’m not proud of this, but when I was younger, I was a magnet for unavailable men. They flirted with me, and sometimes they even cheated with me. They took me out, blew off their girlfriends to spend time with me instead, heavily flirted and sometimes outright professed their attraction. They expressed how much more passionate, smart, interesting, exciting, and/or sexy I was than their woman.

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Interviews With Experts: Image Consultant Joui Turandot

Joui-browns-016I’m excited to introduce my latest project: an ongoing interviews with experts series! These content-rich interviews will cover different topics that relate to flirting, dating, relationships, and personal development (after all, I don’t know everything ;) ).

I recently interviewed Image Consultant Joui Turandot about what to wear to bring out your sexiest self!

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Reader Question: What if I’m Shy, Introverted, and Not Into Partying?

guy studying in libraryI recently received this question from a reader, and he gave me permission to post my response here.

Dear Liz,

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3 Rules for Dating Rules: How Smart People Deal with Dating Do’s and Don’ts

iStock_000013123709XSmallOh goody, the women who brought us The Rules are doling out more do’s and don’ts for the modern woman who wants to manipulate a man into marrying her. Luckily I don’t need to spend too much time telling you how silly The Rules are; this awesome article is here to do it for me!

If you’re not familiar with The Rules, it’s a book that promises women ‘happily ever after’ with a man, if she just follows these rules. The rules include gems like…

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Teleseminar Recording: Dating With Integrity: How to Flirt Without Being Cheesy, Sleazy, or Too Easy

The recording for last week’s teleseminar, Dating With Integrity: How to Flirt Without Being Cheesy, Sleazy, or Too Easy, is now available for download as an MP3 file here: Dating With Integrity MP3 (please note that the Q & A section has been edited out to protect the privacy of the callers).

You can access the accompanying PDF handout here.

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